Autism & Faith 1989

Different is seeing the differences in each other. I do not see my Autism as a disability I see it as an opportunity to help others. Autism affects each individual in different ways. Some are nonverbal and need lots of support. I have been an advocate for myself and others. I have helped families with resources and how to access them. There have been challenges that I have had to overcome. I had issues with eye contact, I did not talk until I was 4 through speech therapy. I also had sensitive to clothes and fabrics. Everyone has obstacles to overcome and I have come a long way over the years. Having Autism has been challenging for me, and I have overcome my obstacles. The grace of god in Jesus has pushed me through my life’s obstacles and the ups and downs of life.

My faith in God has been what has given me so much joy. Being a church deacon for the Church of Jesus Christ will bring joy to the homebound members and the individuals who are recovering from surgery, in rehab and also experiencing grief and loss. Being there for the friendless and just being a friend to the isolated and those who need someone to listen and just be present in their wider faith community.

As Mr. Rogers said “There are three ways to ultimate success:

The first way is to be kind.

The second way is to be kind.

The third way is to be kind.

I do not feel different. I feel privileged that Autism has been a gift to me in many ways. Being different is a state of mind.  I am privileged to be able to be an advocate for myself and others. Helping others has been a great gift to me. I have been there for so many in my life. Being different means something different to so many. “Make sure your love for being authentic is stronger than your need for approval” – Karen Salmansohn

I have different abilities that I can excel and find success. I am different in my abilities because of the love and support of my friends and family. The biggest influence on my life was a Special Education teacher Nan Strong. She was the friend that thought I might have Autism and she was right. She has told me that everyone is different and special in their own ways. She has always been at my side when I need it the most and I can call to listen and lean on for support. I have lots of other people in my life that have been exceptional supports in my life.

Bill Withers in his song Lean on Me says “Lean on me, when you’re not strong
And I’ll be your friend
I’ll help you carry on
For it won’t be long
‘Til I’m gonna need
Somebody to lean on

Friends let you lean on them for comfort and support. They will always be there for you for you in the good and bad times.